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Trusted by families nationwide
Find trusted assisted living & memory care — without the spam calls
Free matching for families. We email your options first — we don't sell your number to 10 agencies. Medicaid and VA tools with zero signup.
- Zero Spam Guarantee
- Email first — phone optional
- 100% free for families
- No call bombardment
Free tools · No spam · Real data
The AllyKin Trust Stack
Answers before sales calls — Medicaid screening, inspection lookups, and live CMS ratings. Every tool works without a phone number.
Why we're different
Built to beat what families hate about referral sites
A Place for Mom, Caring.com, and SeniorAdvisor earn thousands per placement from facilities. AllyKin leads with free government data and your inbox.
Government data — not paid awards
37%
of "top picks" had violations
Washington Post found a third of recommended facilities had recent neglect citations. We link to live CMS ratings and state inspection portals.
Free tools — no signup required
50 states
Medicaid + inspections covered
Medicaid screener, CMS nursing ratings, VA quiz, and cost calculator work without a phone number. Research before you commit.
Senate Aging Committee is investigating commission-based referral services for steering families toward unsafe facilities. See how we're different
150
Major US Metro Guides
50
States — Medicaid & Inspections
8
Free Research Tools
<24 hrs
Email Match Response Goal
100% Free
No Obligation
Confidential
Simple Process
How Free Care Matching Works
Three steps to compare assisted living and memory care — no cost, no pressure.
Step 01
Enter your zip code
Tell us where your loved one needs care. We surface licensed communities in your preferred area and nearby neighborhoods.
Step 02
Share care needs
Answer a few questions about care type, urgency, and budget. Our system pre-qualifies options that fit your family.
Step 03
Get matched locally
A care specialist contacts you with personalized recommendations — usually within 24 hours. Tour communities with confidence.
Types of Senior Care We Help You Find
Not sure which level of care your parent needs? Our specialists help you understand options before you tour a single community.
Assisted Living
Residential care with help for daily activities — bathing, meals, medications, and mobility. Ideal when home care is no longer safe or sustainable.
Learn more →Memory Care
Specialized secure units for Alzheimer's and dementia. Higher staff ratios, structured programs, and environments designed to reduce confusion.
Learn more →Senior Care Placement
Free matching services that compare communities by budget, location, and care level. We help families tour, evaluate, and choose with confidence.
Learn more →Not Sure Yet?
Take our free 5-question care assessment or use the cost calculator to plan your budget before touring communities.
Learn more →What Families Tell Us They Need
Illustrative experiences based on common situations families report when researching senior care — not individual verified reviews.
“We were overwhelmed after Mom's fall. AllyKin connected us with three communities in Dallas within a day. The specialist asked the right questions and saved us weeks of random Google searches.”
“Dad has early Alzheimer's and we didn't know if he needed memory care or assisted living. The guide and free assessment helped us understand the difference before we toured anywhere.”
“The cost calculator gave us a realistic budget before we started calling communities. No pressure, no spam — just clear next steps when we were ready.”
“Living in Boston, everything felt expensive and confusing. Having city-specific cost data and FAQs made the conversation with my siblings much easier.”
“We needed placement within two weeks after a hospital discharge. Marking 'immediate' on the form got us a callback the same afternoon. Lifesaver during a crisis.”
“I appreciated that they explained how they're paid upfront. Felt honest compared to other referral sites that never mention it.”
Senior Care by City
Browse assisted living and memory care guides for major US metros. Each page includes costs, FAQs, and free local matching.
Houston
TX · from $4,200/mo
Dallas
TX · from $4,500/mo
Phoenix
AZ · from $4,100/mo
Los Angeles
CA · from $5,200/mo
Chicago
IL · from $4,800/mo
Miami
FL · from $4,600/mo
Atlanta
GA · from $4,000/mo
Philadelphia
PA · from $4,700/mo
San Antonio
TX · from $3,800/mo
San Diego
CA · from $5,100/mo
Austin
TX · from $4,300/mo
Charlotte
NC · from $4,100/mo
Denver
CO · from $4,600/mo
Seattle
WA · from $5,300/mo
Tampa
FL · from $4,200/mo
Orlando
FL · from $4,000/mo
Nashville
TN · from $3,900/mo
Boston
MA · from $5,800/mo
Detroit
MI · from $3,700/mo
Minneapolis
MN · from $4,400/mo
Portland
OR · from $4,800/mo
Las Vegas
NV · from $3,900/mo
Baltimore
MD · from $4,600/mo
Pittsburgh
PA · from $4,000/mo
Senior Care Guides & Resources
Expert-written guides on costs, care types, and family decision-making.
Costs & Planning
How Much Does Assisted Living Cost in 2026? State-by-State Guide
Average assisted living costs in the US range from $3,800 to $6,500/month. Learn what affects pricing, how to pay, and how to compare communities.
8 min read
Care Types
Memory Care vs Assisted Living: Which Does Your Parent Need?
Learn the key differences between memory care and assisted living — staffing, security, costs, and when to transition between care levels.
7 min read
Family Guide
7 Signs Your Parent May Need Memory Care (Not Just Assisted Living)
Wandering, sundowning, medication errors, and personality changes may signal it's time for specialized dementia care. Here's what to watch for.
6 min read
Why Families Trust AllyKin
We built this service because referral sites have a reputation problem. Families are stressed — they deserve answers before sales calls.
Zero Call Bombardment
Other sites trigger 10+ sales calls in 24 hours. We connect you with one matched specialist — only if you want a call.
Email First, Always
Your matches arrive by email within 24 hours. Phone is optional — check a box only when you're ready to talk.
Free Tools, No Signup
Medicaid eligibility checker, VA benefits quiz, and cost calculator work without a phone number or account.
Transparent Compensation
We may earn from partner networks when you connect with a provider. This never increases your cost. We explain everything upfront.
Ready to Find Care for Your Loved One?
Join thousands of families who used our free matching service. No pressure, no obligation — just personalized recommendations for your area.
Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions from families researching senior care options.
How is AllyKin different from A Place for Mom or Caring.com?▾
Unlike commission-driven referral sites, we offer email-first matching (phone optional), free Medicaid and CMS tools without signup, and direct links to state inspection records. We disclose our compensation model upfront and never sell your number to multiple agencies.
Is AllyKin really free for families?▾
Yes. Our matching service is completely free for families. We may receive compensation from partner referral networks when you connect with a care provider — this does not affect your cost at the community.
Will I get flooded with sales calls?▾
No. Unlike typical referral sites, we email your matches first. Your phone number is optional — we only call if you check the box requesting a callback. One specialist, not a dozen agencies.
Who typically uses this service?▾
Adult children (ages 45–65), spouses, and caregivers researching assisted living or memory care for a parent or loved one. Most users are facing an urgent or upcoming care transition.
How quickly will someone contact me after I submit the form?▾
Most families hear from a care specialist within 24 hours. If your situation is urgent (care needed within 2 weeks), note that in the form for prioritized outreach.
Do you operate senior living facilities?▾
No. We are an independent information and referral service. We help families compare licensed communities and connect with placement specialists — we do not own or operate any care facilities.
What areas do you cover?▾
We provide city-level guides and matching for 150 major US metropolitan areas across Texas, California, Florida, New York, and more — with new cities added regularly.
How much does assisted living typically cost?▾
The national average is $4,200–$4,800 per month. Costs vary by city, care level, and room type. Memory care typically costs 20–30% more. Read our full cost guide for state-by-state breakdowns.
Can you help if my parent has dementia or Alzheimer's?▾
Yes. We specialize in matching families with memory care communities that have secure units, dementia-trained staff, and structured cognitive programs. Indicate memory care needs in the form.
What information should I have ready before calling?▾
Helpful details include: your parent's zip code, current living situation, mobility level, diagnosis (if any), monthly budget range, and preferred move-in timeline.